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My mother passed away, my father is a drug addict

Posted September 16th, 2008 in Leadership Academy, South Africa by Frérieke

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By Lwazi Dyantyi

What matters to me is my friends and me.

The reason why I say that my life matters to me is that I have been and still going through a lot of painful things alone. When my mother passed away I was lost because she was my guider and adviser. My father is a Junkie and he don’t care about me and he says that I must be “INDEPENDENT” to him. That’s very painful to be told by the only parent you are left with. I know that good and bad times come and go so it’s part of life. Now I have to make and take positive things and choices of my life. I love myself no matter what the situation is I am only me NOBODY ELSE.

Many of my friends are fortunate than me they still have both of their parents. They are given everything that they want at any time than me. I once had o low self esteem because of the situation I was facing. I advice them to LOVE,CARE&RESPECT them while they still have them both. I have seen that most of the youngster get LOST and start to be CORRUPT when one or both of their parents died. I don’t want my friends to be like that when that time comes in their lives. I try by all means to make or prepare them that PATH when that time came. I love my friends very much and I care for them.

Yes in life there are GOOD and BAD times but I am glad that that time came when I loved GOD because he is my savior. I love myself no matter what the situation is because they are making me to be a STRONG and BRAVE man in my future. I LOVE MYSELF VERY MUCH THANK YOU.

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One Response so far.

  1. Marc says:

    Hi Lwazi,
    Raquel has told me that you read this letter in front of your class. I am Raquel’s fiance, and I wanted you to know that you are a truly courageous young man. I have no idea how difficult it must be to be in your shoes, but clearly you have the strength and everything that it takes to overcome this.

    When I was 12 years old, my parents divorced and my mother moved away with my sister. In some ways, the experience has made me stronger and has contributed to who I am today.

    Know that you are loved and supported and people are thinking about you.
    Marc